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I wanted to design a safe space for women or anyone who is interest in love and dating in our modern world. Here I will share the many trial and tribulations I have faced in the London scene dating; from relationships, to talking stages, to ghosting, to break ups, to healing and moving on. Hopefully you can learn from my litany of errors!

I hope to provide advice to my readers questions, following my many years of dating and therapy. I heavily caveat, I am not a trained professional, and this should be considered more an agony aunt, than replacement for professional help. But hopefully through my vast experience, I can provide valuable, neutral insights into your dating woes.

I also want to tell you about my past relationships from emotionally abusive to monogamous and happy, my dating tips, my dating fails (of which are numerous and often hilarious) and how to navigate it all, without wanting to fling your phone across the room in a fit of rage after you’ve been left on read/seen/delivered….again

If that sounds like something you’d enjoy….

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